Welcome to my world. An altered state of reality in which I sometimes feel as if I am the only one experiencing issues and situations that are ridiculous, funny, frustrating and thought provoking.
No one is perfect and so when it comes to bad behaviour neither gender is without sin yet still men get pelted with more stones as they are said to be dogs and do doggish things like cheat, be disrespectful, inconsiderate, or worse are abusers or dead beat dads. Yup their reputations have preceded them in some instances but if men are such dogs why do women bother with them?
The first time he said he was helping her paint out a room in her home, then he said she needed her pipes fixed. Now it seems he is constantly over her home because her flat screen TV is way bigger than the one in your house. What could really have caused your man to be constantly over the neighbour’s house?
Dobby Dobson got a lot of flack for his hit song ‘Loving Pauper’ back in the day but honesty counts for a lot in a relationship. A man who has nothing and tells his girl that he has nothing and expects her to stay with him, is not only an honest man but very brave in an epoch when women are known for being materialistic and cynical. A broke man who is either unemployed or under employed has to get creative when finding ways to make his significant other feel special.
Remember when you were a child and you used to love to play dress up? Yup, you would do anything to get a Superman costume or Wonder Woman’s bracelet and belt and even when you got older you wanted to be one of the popular wrestlers and you would go around strutting your stuff and posing like your favourite characters. Well you can still keep it fun but take it up a notch, lose the ‘pg’ play for something a little more risqué as you take the games into the bedroom.