Signs your parents are ruining your relationship

The ‘in-law’. A word that can drive fear and frustration in the heart of even the most confident individual.  Everyone wants to get along with their in-laws but this is not always possible and when they becoming interfering, it can test the foundation and bonds of even the most loving relationships.

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My 16 Personality Factor (PF) Test results

Cattell’s 16 Factor Test Results

Warmth |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Intellect |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Emotional Stability |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Aggressiveness ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Liveliness |||||||||||| 38%
Dutifulness |||||||||||||||||| 58%
Social Assertiveness |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Sensitivity |||||||||||||||||| 58%
Paranoia |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Abstractness ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Introversion |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Anxiety ||||||||||||||| 42%
Openmindedness |||||||||||||||||||||||| 74%
Independence ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Perfectionism |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Tension |||||||||||| 34%

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Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing…When the protected becomes prey

Stacey was only seven when her uncle decided that she was old enough to play the adult version of ‘mamma and pappa’ that required both of them being naked under the sheets when her mother went to prayer meetings several times a week. Coerced into remaining silent the ‘games’ continued for five years, progressing from simple touching to full penetration on her twelfth birthday as he said she was now “old enough to bleed, old enough to breed.”

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Meet Michael Williams – Rookie Lawyer of the Year 2015

Staring at the ashes of the dwelling he once called home, a teenaged Michael Williams vowed two things: one he would not die poor and two, that he grow up to be a lawyer to ensure that others do not have to go through the various human right violations that are a daily occurrence in the inner city.

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