In the 80s you would be called a ‘buups’ ; by the 90s you were ungraded to a ‘brinks’ and the millennium definition for your relationship is simply an ‘ATM’. We would all like to think that our significant others love us unconditionally and will be with us through thick and thin and stick with us like peanut butter and jelly. We pray for the best but sometimes realise the worst when we stop being gullible and admit that our relationship maybe one sided. If you are in doubt as to whether you are paying for your partner’s affection, pay close attention to the following tips to determine if your mate is trying to ‘bruk outta brukness’ with you as their clueless cash cow.