Looks or Personality… Which is more important?

So you think you found yourself a good man because he is caring, compassionate and considerate. He is romantic, tells you he loves you and get this…even lets you holds his phone and have the passwords to all his electronic devices! He communicates, shows you affection in front of his friends and introduces you as ‘his girl’ to everyone. You are over the moon happy and can see the relationship progressing to the next level. There is only one major problem….he has a face only a mother can love and in his case, that mother would still need at least six shots of Hennessey to show that love as physically he could be twins with Quasimodo.

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Those born with the pretty gene

In a world where looks is important, I have never been worried about my own as I know while I am not a supermodel, I’m also not Shrek’s baby sister. We live in a society preoccu-pied with how you look, your size and your weight. Now while I acknowledge that we should strive to be healthy, when every woman strives to be a size 2 or a zero that is absolutely ridiculous as we black women especially were born with more curves that Mount Rossier so we have to take into consider that we have hips, ass and everything in between.

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Black is beautiful

 

For me Lupita’s win at the Golden Globes and now the Oscars has so much significance. She became the toast of Hollywood and social media. Yes we have many black actresses doing great and holding their own but most had a particular hue. Not since Grace Jones has been  the world been so captivated by a real dark skin woman without picking her apart by saying her lips too big or her hair too kinky etc. Continue reading…