Welcome to my world. An altered state of reality in which I sometimes feel as if I am the only one experiencing issues and situations that are ridiculous, funny, frustrating and thought provoking.
He was nice to you until you introduced him to your boyfriend. Instantly his countenance and attitude towards you changed; his smile turned to a smirk and he is dismissive of you and everything you have to say. So what could have caused this? Well, there are several possibilities but the main contender is probably that he is upset that you are the one that got away. This is what is known as ‘pum pum’ feelings.
In the early 90s, singer Patty Smyth did one of her biggest hits which was a song about the dangers of loving somebody too much but the real clincher in terms of lyrics was the line ‘sometimes love just ain’t enough’.
Some things are not that big of a deal but if done in public, could light up social media faster than a Christmas tree. While some may guffaw and have a chuckle others will definitely be laughing at you and not with you. Nobody likes to be the butt of a joke and worse, no one likes to be associated with an individual said to be like school in summer: no class.
Every man deserves a good woman; someone who is his backbone or like the Bible says his rib that is a comforter, nurturer, sounding board, muse, life coach and help mate whenever one or more of these roles is required. A lot has been said about the search for a good man but we tend to be silent when it comes to locating that genuine girl that challenges her spouse to be a better version of himself.