The ‘puss eena bag’ syndrome

So you deh a church a mind u owna business and you notice that the kinda cute guy in the choir has been checking you out. Every time after church he stops to say hi and of late he has been offering you and your sister rides to the nearest convenient spot. At first you hadn’t given him much thought, but then you took the time to do more than a cursory once over.

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You know you’re a side chick when…

He only comes over to your house at night; he doesn’t introduce you to any of his family members and calls you sweety…and nothing else. Now these things in and of themselves probably doesn’t mean anything but if they are part of a bigger series of worrying issues and red flags, chances are he doesn’t see you as real wife material. Continue reading…


When sex caa save a relationship

Red flags, rumours and things that don’t add up are just a few ways we can tell that our relationships may be in trouble. Some of us like to ignore the obvious and continue to play Suzie Homemaker and make believe that all its well on the home front as we are more interested in the fairy tale of a relationship than the reality of a real one. If we don’t fix small issues they won’t stay small for very long.

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