They say it is worse than obeah and stronger than any collie duppy. Those two words evoke such negative reaction from people than when someone is accused of it, it is almost a guaranteed fight or argument. Bad mind. Some people wallow in it, others are in denial but their actions speak louder than even their words.
If the very thought of your partner with someone else sends your into an emotional tail spin, chances are you have been bitten by the green eyed monster. Yup, jealousy is your evil bed mate and constant partner and dictates the actions in your relationship.
In a world where looks is important, I have never been worried about my own as I know while I am not a supermodel, I’m also not Shrek’s baby sister. We live in a society preoccu-pied with how you look, your size and your weight. Now while I acknowledge that we should strive to be healthy, when every woman strives to be a size 2 or a zero that is absolutely ridiculous as we black women especially were born with more curves that Mount Rossier so we have to take into consider that we have hips, ass and everything in between.
So a woman on Facebook has been getting lots of attention as she discusses how the side chick lifestyle works. I listened to it for about 2 minutes and then clicked off. It’s not for me. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not judging, I just can’t relate. Continue reading…